Love shouldn’t cost you your power.
I’m Fanny Tristan — a trauma therapist, women's empowerment coach, and the founder of Her Soul Supply. I help high-functioning Black and Brown women identify where they’ve been quietly giving their power away — in relationships, at work, within family systems, and in community — and learn how to reclaim it without becoming hardened, detached, or self-sacrificing. Most women don’t struggle with love.They struggle with knowing when love is costing them their agency.Through essays, workshops, and facilitated conversations, I explore how patriarchy, relational conditioning, and over-functioning show up in modern women’s lives — and what it actually takes to build intimacy, leadership, and connection without shrinking.If your audience is thoughtful, self-aware, and tired of advice that tells women to “heal more” instead of hold power differently, they’ll feel at home here.